2)People putting words in other peoples mouths.
A blog is a persons thoughts, if there is a question at the end, people should feel free and comment/answer it.
The exact definition, according to Dictionary.com: a web site containing the writer's or group of writers' own experiences, observations, opinions, etc., and often having images and links to other Web sites.
If you don't like something someone posts, then don't read it. It's very simple. If something they say upsets you, then tell them, fine, don't hide behind "anonymous" be up front and don't be a wuss.
I'm sure this is very confusing right now...another blogger, posted a blog, that mentioned me and a few others, not by name just as a group and someone had posted a comment, hiding behind anonymous, saying that the OP had just pissed off the entire group, we believe we know who it was that posted the comment (NOT a member of the group).
Of course it upset it OP, but it also upset me, this person hardly knows anyone in the group (assuming we're right about who it is), only talks to one of them regularly, at least I believe, yet they believe they can talk for us?
I was not pissed off when I read the blog. I never once thought "They just insulted me!" Because they didn't, I know them well enough to understand exactly what was meant.
Nobody asked the commenter's opinion, and once again, if its who we think it is, WE DON'T CARE!
Everyone has an opinion, I get that, if you have an opinion, embrace it, don't hide it or who you are.
If you do comment, thats great, but you do not put words it others mouth. saying OP pissed us off, they had no right to do so. If they are a member of the group, then they should have said "This pissed me off" fine, not us. Unless you know for a fact, you don't assume.
Not saying I dislike comments, I embrace others opinions and views, but be honest about it and who you are.
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